So, SIL2 finally told us she's pregnant. Through text message.
It's literally been two months since it we found out via FB (*eta: My bad, that's how long since it was originally posted there. We found out last month actually. Still... wow.)
A- totally told her he already knew, and how he'd found out. That gave me a chuckle, I don't think I would have went that far. I would have just said, "Congrats" and left it at that. I guess he was a bit more miffed about it than I was. It was actually an interesting game waiting to see how long it'd take for her to tell us. I was starting to think she wasn't going to bother.
She only texted him originally to give him her new number. He doesn't think she would have told him today otherwise.
In other news, it's 6dpo today. Half-way through the two week wait. I'm still planning to hold off testing until at least 13dpo. I'm not in a hurry to test, unlike previous cycles. There just doesn't seem as much point. If I do test positive, I'll have to wait until then to get my HCG tested. And then I'd also just be anxious about possibly miscarrying again. If I test negative... well, since we're at the end of the road there isn't much to do but have some strawberry daiquiris, cry till I have no more tears left, throw myself back into weight loss, hunt down a better paying job... and hope that someday we find the right path to parenthood for us.